有些东西，注定不是你的，强求也没用。
注定是你的，逃也逃不掉。
有些东西，还是要自己去争取。
争取不到，还是要认清，接受事实。

there's no such thing in the whole as who owes who a living. of cuz, when one achieves certain degree of success, there might be some that once helped him/her along the way. but it doesnt means that he/her owes that person for the success.

say it once or twice, its gratitude.
say it 3-4 times, its neutral.
say it more than 5 times, u dont deserve my gratification at all, and ure getting irritating.

helping people, is all willing. you dont help people with the mentality to be repaid. if you keep thinking that way, you dont deserve to be repaid no matter how much you have helped that person.

and of cuz, gratitude should always be on the heart of those who are helped, because nobody is perfectly justified to help you in anyway, and because they dont owe you anything.