i realise the feeling of blogging is almost similar to doing admin work in the office. except that im writing my own story rather than other people's. of cuz, the irregularity came about from me being lazy and reduction in the frequency i use my laptop.

significant changes:

1. i cut my hair short. haven shown my face to most people since then even though im very satisfied with the change. guess its time to meet up with more people soon, probably after their exams.

2. going on a 2 weeks holiday to vietnam! tickets bought, money changed. i'll just need to pack my bag and wait for things to happen. to think about it, im still stuck at blogging about day 2 of my HK trip which was 6 months ago? crap!

3. i finally paid off my legal study debt to the bank. however, im still in unofficially debt to the BF and poh for lending me money to pay off the legal sharks. i'll be in debt till april next year!!! *sobz*

thats about significant stuff.

now the not so significant:

1. i had a small small quarrel with my mom one of the days because of male and female stereotypes in a relationship. my mom said something like people will generally think very badly and lowly of a girl who always goes over to the male's house. and it suddenly occurred to me that in-laws conflict may had been partially contributed by this lack of chance in understanding and communicating with each other. of course, i do understand that attitude before and after marriage do change, but lets just put things aside. im just angry that she's still saying these sort of things now.

2. on the same day, my mother scolded me for not helping her to check if my uncle's car was locked. i casually asked "where's his wife?" and i got scolded for not willing to help. and the next thing i did was to ask what should i do if the car is locked. *basic common sense is that the alarm will go off if the car is locked and someone tried to open the door* she got stunned for a few seconds and replied me that nothing will happen. i explained to her the basic common sense and she scolded me for not helping her and coming with all sorts of excuses.

when i reached my another aunt's house, i realise that my uncle and all my aunt were there. so i started asking them about the alarm system. and duh! i was right lah! i got so angry about being scolded by my mom that i just started crying immediately. i just hate it when people wrong accuse me of something, especially when im right! argh! angry!

3. went for cooking class for team bonding. i dont see the link there, but im very amazed by cooking. i have always dream that i will be able to cook wonderful dishes one day and i will want to explore more... but im scared! lol :)